What 50/50 Parenting Plans Mean for Modern Families

In this video, Anne Hamer shares how parenting time in Tennessee family law has evolved significantly over the years. Traditionally, post-divorce arrangements often gave one parent—usually the mother—the majority of parenting time, while the other parent typically had weekends and an occasional midweek dinner. But that model is quickly becoming outdated.

Today, courts are increasingly recognizing the value of shared parenting and are more open to granting balanced parenting schedules that reflect modern family dynamics. It’s now common to see extended weekend arrangements, such as Thursday through Monday, and additional overnight stays during the week. In some courts, even when parents don’t fully agree, judges may still approve 50/50 parenting plans if both parents are capable and the arrangement supports the child’s best interests.

Anne emphasizes that this shift is a positive one—for both children and parents. Divorce is difficult enough without the added heartbreak of reduced time with your children. The courts’ growing willingness to equalize parenting time means more children benefit from meaningful relationships with both parents, and families can move forward with greater balance and peace of mind.

Whether you’re currently navigating a divorce or revisiting a parenting plan, understanding how the law has changed can help you make more informed decisions for your family. Anne brings both legal clarity and compassionate insight to this important conversation.